In the Corner of Your Spacious Mind...

... you were wondering why you said 'Yes'.

Well, you were hungry. But why didn't you ask the person who you were talking to? What? Won't see them in the near future? Fair enough a deal. Have you not learnt in previous sessions? Oh, brush them aside because that's how fat your heart  is. Oh well, there's hope you would have fun. But, was it? To a certain extent. You want to be heard, and there's no fault in it. You want to spend time, quality time. By what definition makes quality that very quality you claim it should be?

They spoke, you listened. You looked enthusiastic. They did, didn't, did.

You don't know what to make of this you do not understand.

Just sleep and learn not to repeat, not to repel but to retreat. To smile. To accept, because that's what you're great at.

Hey, maybe one day someone might look you in the eye and ask you, "What about you?"

Paint

Have you ever mixed paint together? What a stupid question. Of course you have!

It's fun! In fact I'd love to spend hours just mixing colours and finding new colours. Imagine a huge sheet of paper and a couple of pot of paints by your side. You dab a little red, then a little yellow and voila! Orange!

A little more yellow and you'd get a brighter orange. A little more red and you get a deeper orange.

Conversations are like colours. With the right topics and friends, we mix our conversations to be of beautiful colours. 

When we hardly mix with people, we'd be plain colours. Our knowledge would be limited or we have limited friends.

But when we overdo it, things turn ugly. When too much of paint is added into each other it all turns into a nasty puddle of muddy mush! 

Bridges

"We'll cross the bridge when we come to it." Those are her favourite words. For most of my life  I thought it was simply an excuse to avoid any topic which required fortune telling skills that an average person would not possess. 

But now, I see the wisdom in it.

You see, I am sitting on my bed, listening to melancholy music while sewing an excuse of a kaftan and getting emotional. It all sounds pathetic, even cliche, but it makes me think. Think abundantly and generously. Can't help it. I am an emotional shipwreck comparable to the Titanic on the inside. Yet, outside I am hard as my scones. My scones can kill cats. It's an opinion but I'd like to try it out.So, as I was saying, bridges. Everytime I speak of something, some event that may or may not take place in the future, she quotes me those very words.

But, I really can't help it. My heart has this magical capability. In a moment of opportunity to dream, to wish, to wonder, it wanders. It unfurls this magnificent set of wings, unhitches itself from the clutches of my rib cage and flies away. It travels beyond time, faster than the hands of a clock.

I watch a movie about art, suddenly, I am Picaso clad in Prada walking the length of my newly furbished art gallery. I go on a field trip to a court and in seconds I am a high flying litigator, with a killer tongue and a killer pair of stilettos to match. Always and always in a pencil skirt which I can never pull off due to my fat thighs, a tucked in shirt to emphasize my fantasy of a flat stomach and a pair of killer heels. My visions enable me the capability to think for a second or two that I am a highly desirable woman with looks that would turn any man stupid. But then again, with a chopstick and a spool of thread, one could easily accomplish that.

Lara Croft and Charlie's Angels convinced my hypothetical self that I was not only desirable but dangerous. I am lethal with knife, with gun, even with only a feather for a weapon. Frost/Nixon made me want to be intelligent so much so only a man with a beard a foot long could be compatible to my intellectual capabilities. Freedom Writers, Dead Poet's Society and Mona Lisa Smile won my heart over. It sent me down a lane of apple trees in a summer dress with a basket full of papers to mark. Papers with names of people I want to potentially influence. The list goes on, but I hope you get my point.

And then, I met him. There were hard lines and curiously emptiness in his eyes that trapped me and my magical flying heart. I wanted to explore, to discover this treasure chest. Somehow things didn't turn out to be as my incredibly stupid flying heart whispered so. His first words exposed him a boy. He is a boy. A boy as any boy would be. But I am relentless. I am as stubborn as a donkey as any donkey would be. I combed through every conversation, gesture and mannerism. I fed my head's content with possibilities. I swaddled myself in grief whenever I felt ostracized in a company of more than him. I am stupid and it didn't take him a chopstick and a spool of thread to do the trick. 

We'll cross the bridge when we come to it.

Obviously, this sense of curiosity is unrequited. There is no enthusiasm. At least on his part. And as for me, I wasn't at any bridge. This is not the bridge, the bridge I am waiting to cross so that my stupid heart can remain in my rib cage and I walk that bridge with it safely locked up. 

But, will I stop dreaming? I can't promise you that and for the world, the stars and every lollipop in the Milky Way, I beg your pardon, but I will not stop. My heart was meant to unfurl and fly. Though it returns home hurt and bruised, it dreamed a dream that will come to pass when I come to that bridge.

Fire

"Ouch!" she said to herself, carrying the fire precariously with her two small hands. Her uncle had told her to gather some old sticks together, tie a rubber band around and get some fire from the next door neighbour. Now, as she carried the sticks between her hands, the melted rubber dripped and stung her feet. Again she yelped, "Ouch!" By this time, there were tears streaming down her face. The pain was unbearable. Just at that moment the local dresser came by and heard her sobs. He took her to the infirmary and got her wounds cleaned and treated. Then, he took her home.

Three clicks is all it takes to turn the gas on. Just a twist of the knob to the left, click click click, and we're set to go. Pop the pan on the burner, pour the oil, cook the meal. There is no need for fire starters, tinder boxes or sticks held together with a rubber band. And should anything happen to me, my mother would come running... to wipe my tears away.

She entered the house. The dresser left her at the front door. The room was still except for the scampering of Uncle's feet across the floor, coming toward her. So still, so quiet, so alone. "What happened?" he asked. "The melted rubber burnt my feet so the dresser took me to the infirmary." He looked at her, lifted her chin and said, "I know it has been difficult, but you have to be responsible for the fire, since your mother is no more." Silently, she nodded and walked to the kitchen, holding the bundle of sticks with melted rubber.


Happy 79th Birthday.

The Faking Soul

Our lives are filled with wants, these wants vary from the material, the emotional, the intellectual to the physical. Questions is are these wants wrong? If they are, why? If they aren't, are there levels of intensity for wants? How much can one want? Can want be eternally good or can want wander off to regions of forbidden intensities?

Binary oppositions teach us that to understand want you must know its opposite. Introducing another term : need. What is want opposed to need? How can one differentiate a need from a want?

Who determines what is a want and need? Can a want become a need?

By this time you might think me an irrational idiot who has nothing better to do than to ask these stupid and simple questions and boggle her brain.

True, I'd agree with you. Actually, I need to start on my assignment. But, if you're already bored, go find another blog to read (assuming someone is reading this - because I am 'syok sendiri' like that), I like to rant.

Well, these questions have been plaguing my mind.

I would  consider myself practical enough (don't laugh) to differentiate need from want.

E.g. : I need God, daddy, mummy, siblings, food, water, air, clothes, money, shelter, love and chocolate to survive this life. I want more chocolate, friends, a car that moves from point A to B, cheese and Robert Downey Jr to enjoy life.

But, the question of want....

How much can on want? Because I want and I want so much.
I really want. I am so desperate in my wanting sometimes I think I am nuts. Can one want so much?

God help me, I am seriously stuck in a whirlpool of want, and I can't swim.

Alcoholic Moments

I am like beer
I am acquired taste
I am glad I am like beer
I'd like to think of myself as Hoegaarden
Gentle and fragrant
But still amazingly
Like beer

The Edge

Take me to the edge, dear

Take me please.

Take me as close as possible before I fall over

Then when I least expect it tip me over.

Let me fall.

Fall down all the way.

All the way,

I need the thrill.

The excitement will choke my heart

Grip my throat

I will not scream

I will not fear

But take it all in

Every inch of adrenalin

All the way down.

If you have it in your heart,

Come after me.